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MANLINESS: A man must balance his archetypes or suffer the consequence of being an imbalanced man.

Updated: Apr 17, 2021

Manliness: Every man has inherent elements that must be turned on if he wishes to enliven his masculine energy

Archetypes are elements that influence human thought and behaviour that gives rise to the similarities between the myths and religions of different cultures.

A book by psychologist Robert Moore and mythologist Douglas Gillette titled King, Warrior, Magician, Lover: Rediscovering the Archetypes of the Mature Masculine, argues that masculinity is made up of four archetypal male energies which serve different purposes. The book argues that to become complete, a man must work to develop all four archetypes.

The result of striving to become complete is a feeling of manly confidence and purpose.

The archetypes of the masculine are:

  • The Warrior

  • The Magician

  • The Lover

  • The King.

These archetypes surface in mythology, folklore and in modern times film productions.

The Warrior

The warrior creates and supports stability. The Warrior uses his energy to face threats of violence from outside and threats of chaos from within. He must calm his own internal kingdom before he can face the predators that prowl outside.

The Warrior: Ensures a man's life has purpose and direction by stimulating his primordial energy of aggressiveness.

With a calm mind, the warrior is able to act without hesitation or fear and maintain composure even as he stands under a barrage of missiles. It is his aggressiveness, his will to action, his mental alertness and strong stature that allows him to become the protector of his community.

The Magician

The Magician drives us to understand hidden knowledge and truth. The Magician is grounded and present. He draws energy from his body rather than the commotion of his mind allowing his senses to enjoy the natural flow of the world.

The Magician: Mastery of secret knowledge to manipulate tools in order to produce desired outcomes.

He is deeply in tune with his intuition and is sensitive to his surroundings. He notices the vibrations of people’s thoughts and feels the change in their emotions. The Magician was known in ancient times as the mystic, sage or alchemist.

The Lover

The Lover is the most repressed archetype in the current world.

The Lover is the archetype of emotion, feeling, idealism and sensuality. His heart is open to the spirit of the world and he seeks to experience as many dimensions of life as possible, as often as possible.

The King

The King is a balance of the other archetypes. The seat of the King is the heart. He directs and orders them so that he can become a divine channel of goodness to those around him. He is grounded and decisive. He lives with integrity, he provides order, he protects his realm, he inspires creativity in others.

The King: He is a servant to his people but he does not serve the people’s selfish and foolish needs or their will, rather he serves a higher purpose.

Unfortunately, men today are indulging in the shadows of these archetypes. So, the word ‘toxic’ has been attributed to masculinity. But if the world is poisoned, it is no surprise that men have become poisoned also.

The male archetype consists of three parts described like a triangle: the full and highest expression of the archetype and two bi-polar dysfunctional shadows of the archetype. Each archetype has a mature and immature form. These immature archetype must fully develop to access the mature archetypes.

The immature, boyhood archetypes are the Divine Child, the Hero, the Precocious Child, and the Oedipal Child.

It is not masculinity that is toxic. Rather, it is the shadow expression of masculinity that is toxic. Brutalised children, born from cruel or absent parents who are not taught how to deal with the conflict between their unconscious and their emerging conscious will become, in one way or another, brutal adults. These ill-treated children will grow to be fundamentally insecure. They will not be able to maturely express their masculinity and will never outgrow the self-centred and egoistic impulses of the child, for they are merely boys pretending to be men.

Men and women possess both feminine and masculine archetypal patterns–this is the anima (feminine) and animus (masculine). The modern society suppresses the animus or masculine archetype within them and instead encourages men to get in touch with their “softer side” or their anima.

Problems seen with men today like violence, shiftlessness, indecisiveness, aloofness are a result of modern men not adequately exploring or being in touch with the masculine archetypes in them.

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Unknown member
Jan 23

Impressive! . I have heard of these terms before but after this read; I

easily understood the concept .


raphael k
raphael k
Jul 14, 2022

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Victor Maoya
Victor Maoya
Dec 14, 2021

I have learnt so much from this post. Thank you sir.


Sir Collman Abuti
Sir Collman Abuti
Jun 13, 2021

Well this is quite a read, i would like to expand my knowledge on this

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